. . . but it's really not the military's "obligation" (read: hubris) to tell her so.

Our military is important but they can be a very arrogant lot.

https://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2022/01/woman-suing-u-s-army-air-force-told-needed-look-feminine/

So, so, so  . . . drag queens (and I do mean DRAG QWEENS) in grade schools influencing your children is fine and dandy, but this woman is wrong to cut her hair short for her JOB?????

Oh puhleeze.  Nothing people do can make this country happy anymore. 

And on that note, I say, just do whatever the hell you wanna do at any time of any day, because there will always be SOMEONE who disapproves or doesn't like what you're doing or whatever.  It's getting more ridiculous by the minute.  But then, what else should we expect from a totally deviant society?